I remember my first, spontaneous out-of-body experience. It was in the second half of the 1990s. OOBE — Out-of-Body Experience — is a fascinating event. But when you don’t know what’s happening to you, and after such an experience no one around you can explain it, the potential joy of understanding a remarkable and precious encounter can be overshadowed by a feeling of confusion and the worry that something might be wrong with you.
We are social beings. It is through sharing experiences and verifying our perceptions against more experienced others that we find understanding — and the sense of informational stability that allows us to function in society.

After my first extrasensory experience, I tried to analyze and understand it. But at the time, without knowledge or any point of reference, all I had were guesses.
There was no one I could talk to.
I tried speaking with my loved ones — but they responded either with a skeptical smile, as if I were joking, or with shock and concern on their faces. They had neither the experience nor the knowledge to help me. I quickly learned that not everyone should be told about such intensely personal encounters.
Searching the internet — still in its infancy at the time — brought me some information and even contacts on discussion forums, but these were primarily people who, like me, were just beginning to try to understand extrasensory perception and related topics. They were not experts.
For many years I searched in solitude — learning, analyzing, working my way toward certain conclusions and verifying my theories and intuitions.

The subject of extrasensory perception is a wonderful and fascinating one.
The human capacity to perceive reality beyond the five physical senses — to glimpse with the mind into worlds and realities beyond the physical — is a truly significant ability, and one that gives us hope that we can rise above the limitations of matter.
This is precisely why I consider research in extrasensory perception and the power of the human mind so valuable: not only does it expand the range of personal possibilities through additional knowledge and awareness, but it also opens a better future for humanity — one in which we may consciously enter dimensions of reality we have until now visited only at the subconscious level, in fleeting glimpses through intuitive feelings or dreams.

The evolution and development of humanity unfolds on many levels — including those beyond the perception of the five material senses.
This is why many people spontaneously begin, at a certain stage of their lives, to experience elements of extrasensory perception.
While such experiences can be fascinating, they can also provoke anxiety and disorientation — if one lacks the knowledge and understanding of what is happening to them.

Going through the process of spiritual awakening and the opening of extrasensory perception alone turns out to be a smooth and pleasant experience only for some. After all, if we suddenly begin to sense — or even see — elements of a reality that our parents, our schools, and our culture never taught us about, and that most people around us flatly deny or simply know nothing of — it’s no wonder that experiencing a completely new spectrum of reality in isolation can be difficult, especially for those with a strong need to share and verify their experiences.

We are fortunate to live in the age of the internet, where we can at least search for and find communities of like-minded people who are similarly searching and wishing to exchange experiences.
Discussion groups, forums, and chats of the past offered some sense of community and of not being alone.
The problem with large public groups and forums, however, is sheer chaos — and there’s no guarantee that the advice you receive will come from people who are genuine experts in the field.
Of course, exchanging observations and perspectives at any level can be valuable, but there are situations where advice from people without sufficient knowledge of a topic can do more harm than good.

Beyond that, while internet communication in text form was, at a certain stage, a wonderful revelation — connecting us with people from distant corners of the world — today we are once again beginning to value and recognize the need for closer, more personal contact.

This is why, when working with people online, I personally prefer the audio-video format — seeing and hearing each other in a video conference. This way, even if we cannot meet physically, we can have a genuine sense of community and direct real-time communication — far superior to the dry text of large group forums.

In the title of this article I wrote that extrasensory perception tastes better when you’re not in it alone.
Think about it: When you have even the most powerful and valuable extrasensory experience — when you see and discover fascinating, meaningful information — what does that mean when you’re completely by yourself? What if there’s no one to tell? No one to share it with? No one who will truly understand what you’re talking about.

Or what if someone has an experience they can’t make sense of? It happened — it may be a valuable piece of information — but alone, one may not be fully able to understand it. You could, of course, do what I once did: search independently for years, patiently and methodically verifying your observations. But when you’re in a group with a guide who has already cleared the path, you can do this far more quickly and safely.

Moreover, being in a small group of people sharing a common experience gives you the chance to form genuine connections — and to know that what you experience won’t get lost in a flood of mass posts the way it so often does on public text groups.

Contact within a small team of researchers and explorers of the unknown is simply better — more complete, more rewarding, yielding better results under the guidance of someone with years of experience and the knowledge to help the group discover and activate new possibilities.

This is why when I conduct Remote Viewing sessions — which in my view is the most interesting and most valuable method for activating and using extrasensory perception — I do so in small teams of around five people.
This allows me to ensure that every participant receives my full attention during each group session. The group, in turn, has the opportunity for genuine integration — because people naturally connect best in small teams rather than in large, anonymous crowds.
Being part of such a team, you can be certain that I will give you my full attention, and that together as a group we will have the opportunity to explore and experience something significantly greater than any isolated individual can achieve.

During joint RV sessions, it’s perfectly normal that even if on a given day only one person had a particularly vivid or interesting experience, all participants draw joy and knowledge from it — because they work together as a team, building their results collectively, in a group where every person matters and contributes their unique perspective.

The feeling of not being alone — of knowing that others share similar experiences, and that those experiences can be understood, validated, and built upon — is itself a profound part of the practice.

If you’d like to explore extrasensory perception in the company of others who are on the same path, guided by over two decades of experience in Remote Viewing and extrasensory perception, this journey is one best taken together.

Jakub Qba Niegowski — Extrasensory Awareness Development Specialist